What To Expect On Your
Very First Visit To A Swing Club
Written By:  Barbi Leigh & Ken

Most people have the wrong idea of what a swing club is. Many think that it’s just one big orgy and you check your clothes at the door and then dive right in, doing anything you want with whomever you like.  At our parties, this is COMPLETELY not the case! More than anything else, our parties are a social club where you’ll meet and form friendships with some of the nicest people you’ve ever met. In some cases, you’ll form bonds that will last a lifetime. Here’s how it works...

When you walk into a swing club for the very first time, you and or your partner are probably very nervous.  You don’t know anyone there and you might feel like everyone is watching you. That’s a good sign! That means you’re normal. That’s exactly how everyone feels their first time.

You might expect a lot when you first come to a club and that’s probably the biggest cause of anxiety for first time visitors. I realize that for many men it’s hard to not think about fulfilling all your fantasies about orgies and threesomes involving the man with two women, etc... That could be a huge mistake. As a first time visitor, wives are usually more nervous about the evening, and one sure way to add fuel to that nervous fire is for her to see her husband bouncing off the walls with excitement about jumping into an orgy or looking overly anxious about being with anyone new and that is not his mate.

The best way to approach the evening is with only one single expectation, and that is to have a fun time together. For your first visit to a swing club plan on having a nice dinner and enjoying the sexually charged dance floor. This way you’ll both be completely comfortable, she’s not worried about him wanting to dive into the first orgy he sees and he’s not worried about deciding who is worthy of touching his precious wife.

Then one (or a few) of the following things will definitely happen...

# 1 - At the end of the night after dinner and dancing, you will both go home with each other and after dancing all evening in such a sexually charged environment you will both have the best mind-blowing orgasms during your love-making that you’ve had in years, probably recharging your sex life and supercharging your relationship and your marriage.

# 2 - While on the crowded dance floor during one of the slow songs, you’re dancing together and an attractive couple is dancing beside you and her clothes are coming off and you find her body rubbing against yours on the dance floor. You both respond by touching and caressing them back. Then after the song, you disappear into the crowd enjoying the excitement of the nameless pleasure of this slight sexy anonymous encounter.

# 3 - You are both so turned on by the evening that you go into one of our many cozy, private rooms, lock the door behind you, dim the chandelier, and seeing each other in the mirrors that surround you on all four walls, you enjoy great sex together by being in a different place and knowing that right on the other side of the wall, another couple (or threesome, foursome or moresome) is doing the same. In fact you can even hear their sexy sounds through the walls which multiplies your excitement.

# 4 - You both decide to be a little adventurous. You secure your clothes in a locker and wrap up in two giant beach towels, both provided complimentarily by our playroom attendant. You go to the giant Jacuzzi for a bit where you can enjoy being naked but since you’re shy your first visit you feel more comfortable being in the water where your hands can roam, playing with each other (and maybe others too) under water and not in obvious plain view of everyone, (even though others might be engaged in all sorts of easily viewable activities in and around the Jacuzzi and you).

# 5 - You both know that you want to see more, but you’re not sure about how much you want to participate in. So wrapped in your little security blanket beach towels you venture into the main upstairs "Luvnasium" party complex. Over 5,000 square feet of sensual paradise, one gigantic mattress covering several entire rooms, surrounded by mirrored walls with tropical plants, lighting, ceiling fans and naked bodies.... Lots of them. You don’t get on the mattress, but instead you climb into one of the several observation cubby-holes up above, close enough to easily view all the exciting activities in the room down below you, yet far enough away to accommodate your comfort zone. You feel like you’re part of the activities though not needing to participate in them. It’s like you’re sitting in an adult theater watching the most erotic orgy you’ve ever seen, except this time it isn’t a movie... The action is real and live!

The price is by far the best price for any party.  Be sure to check out the "Sexy Ladies From The WebGirls Internet Chatroom" pages on our web site to see pictures of lots of the OnLine Ladies that come to our Monthly Internet Parties.  We must warn you, these photographs taken at our parties are XXX-Rated and very graphic.  You'll find all these ladies chatting daily in the Town Square - Florida Couples Chatroom on Internet and most are happy to answer any questions you have.  To go talk to them right now live, Click Here => Town Square - Florida Couples.

So Be Sure To Cum To The Original Internet Party. It's going to be tons of fun and that's the perfect night to finally take the plunge and check out the club that everyone's been talking about!

Come to our parties with an open mind and a desire for fun. You'll make some great friends and have a great time.

We appreciate single gentlemen and realize that you play an important role in the swinging lifestyle so select single males are permitted.  "Select" means that you must be clean, polite, well dressed and well mannered.  If you're not all of these things then our parties are not for you.  This link is required reading for All Single Men Wishing To Attend Our Parties.

* The Golden Rule: "NO means NO". Anyone may say "NO" for any reason at any time even if you are in the middle of a swinging encounter and have changed your mind and want to stop it right there!  If you are in a situation that makes you uncomfortable, just say "No". Do not jeopardize your happiness and satisfaction with this lifestyle, or that of your partner, by doing something against your will just because you are afraid to say no. The friendliest way is to say, "oh no thank you, but thanks for asking". Be honest initially, and you will avoid any misunderstandings. Don’t forget that people’s attitudes change and who knows? Maybe sometime in the future you may meet again with a different opinion.

* Always treat one another with respect.  After all, this is a party!  Besides, you don’t want to be rude or judgmental, because you wouldn’t want it to happen to you. If a single gentleman talks to you and you are interested in swinging with couples only, that doesn’t mean you can’t be nice to him. He’s a person just like you! Just politely let him know.

* If you are rejected (and it happens to everyone, including women), Do NOT take personal offense. Rejection is a very personal thing, and it’s almost as hard to reject as it is to be rejected. Honesty with each other is crucial. Who knows? You could end up with a great friendship if you handle the situation right.

* Deal with jealousy head on! It is a normal reaction. Remember that this is strictly a physical & recreational pleasure, not an emotional one. Discover what triggers jealousy in your relationship and work it out together. It may mean modifying your activities, but your relationship together is not worth jeopardizing over swinging.

* Always let your steady partner know she/he is number one. Arrive together, take time to caress them, touch base often, it makes one feel secure. And always leave together.

* Use your common sense and good judgment when you are involved in a swinging situation. Be kind, thoughtful, and sensitive. Swingers, couples & single guys are people and have feelings too!!!

* Honor any and all prior understandings & rules you have made between each other, and be sure to COMMUNICATE with each other openly and honestly so there are no misunderstandings about your rules.

* Respect the guidelines you set as a couple and communicate them to prospective partners. Open, honest communication is imperative to forming relationships! And please don’t forget to respect the guidelines of others. Don’t try to "talk them into" changing the rules because you don’t happen to agree with them!

* Pay attention to body language. There is more to interaction than words. Consider the body language of the person you are talking with and it will tell you more than the conversation you are having! Be sensitive to the person and you will know what makes them uncomfortable or happy and excited.

* Demand absolute discretion! And be worthy of the same. Discretion is paramount in this lifestyle! Privacy is imperative!!! Never, ever discuss details inappropriately. Everything you do, everything you see, MUST remain private. We have a saying, "Everything you see here, Everything you hear here, must remain here when you leave here".

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xoxoxo,
Barbi :)

Barbi Leigh & Ken from the website www.BlondeFlasher.com composed this detailed, "What To Expect" section.  This information is so valuable, that (although unauthorized to do so) a couple clubs post this information on their website.  This speaks volumes!